Hi all, wanted to check in as the calendar turns to November and we begin to creep into the holidays. Below is some camp info as well as a link to a great webinar hosted by Dr. Chris Thurber, an expert in parenting and children who we meet with during pre-camp training to help train Kawaga’s staff. Dr. Thurber is hosting a free online 30 min seminar called “Cracking Kids Secret Code” on November 15th and I am providing the link below so you can participate. I think you will find it very informative and helpful.
It has been a great couple of months since camp ended, particularly for Chicago and Cleveland fans. I have been mesmerized by the Cubs playoff run. Watching every pitch of every 4 hour game and loving every minute of the suspense and fun with Tyler and Dewey by my side (although both are asleep around the 7th inning). It has been a fun run!! More to come in November as the World Series wraps up.
On the camp front, we had a strong start to enrollment with nearly 175 campers signing up. We look forward to getting the rest of our returnees enrolled as recruiting season continues. On the recruiting front, please get us in touch with any potential new families.
Dewey and I will be at Daniel Wright School in Lincolnshire on November 6th for the Camp Fair hosted there. Please drop by to say hello, and send along any potential families to meet us.
Up at camp, construction of the new Mess Hall continues – I will post some more pictures at the end of the week. We remain on schedule.
We are finalizing the Chicago Reunion with details to follow, but looking like January 14, 2017 from 12 to 2pm at Pinstripes. Put it on your calendar NOW…
Finally, one plug – I am participating in my 3rd fundraiser for Movember (men’s health charity) – going with the goatee this year as the mustache can get a little scary looking (particularly during recruiting visits). If you are willing, please donate to a healthy cause at http://mobro.co/matador24
Last night during Banquet Night, we all said goodbye. It was an amazing night for us all. So sad to say goodbye (why is camp only a few weeks??), but it was pretty awesome celebrating all of the campers many accomplishments this summer, and honoring our 9 campers with the Honor Trophies.
Also, last night we paid a final tribute to Fred Geraci who is retiring after this summer. The 2016 Annual Pineneedle was dedicated to him, and I have attached the Dedication here for you to all read. 2016 PINENEEDLE DEDICATION.
Our great Alumni made a sincere video tribute to Fred which I have to share with you all. We love you Fred and will miss you next summer (and always).
As always, camp is just flying by. The boys are having a great time here. As I said to a group of moms yesterday during a tour of Camp Kawaga, we are simply a HAPPY CAMP right now. 180 boys (after a dozen went home from Rookie Camp yesterday) that are being led by a group of counselors who GET IT and a bunch of young camping men that are here to have fun, make friends and play every day. It has been a pleasure for Dewey and I as Directors this summer, and in particular during a fabulous second session.
This was never more evident than a hysterical camp moment that happened the other day during lunch. As some of you may know, we started a bit of stir in the Mess Hall last summer when we introduced 2 new elements to our Mess Hall. Literally on opposite sides of the dining area, we added a large commercial toaster and a wooden rack for sauces (aptly name Sauce Rack). And of course, in true camp fashion, you have to like one more than the other. Well the other day, the Sauce Rack v. Toaster debate went to a whole new level as I watched the entire camp, EVERY member of staff included, rise up on two sides of the Mess Hall cheering for either Sauce Rack or Toaster at the top of their lungs. New cheers were created, funny ones at that, and there was no in between. You either are for us or against us, you either love the Sauce Rack with its choices of BBQ sauces, hot sauce and other condiments, or you simply appreciate warm toast and a bagel more than anything else in camp at that moment!!
The cheers were hysterical and full throated. And all of it had no meaning, it was just CAMP. Pure, unadulterated fun, 100% participation, and not a care in the world that it was silly or who was cheering for which side. Just smiles, laughter and fun as I sat there and shook my head with goose bumps running up my arms because I knew this was one of those moments I would remember, yet could not explain to anyone who was not there to see it. If you have never been to camp, it is truly inexplicable how these things happen or why, or just how much fun CAMP really is
for your children. Yet it does happen – ALL THE TIME. In big ways and in small.
For me, I just appreciate that our boys have come together this summer in such a big way, and that they could have so much fun together in a moment of madness and joy.
And the debate will continue – Sauce Rack or Toaster – which team are you on???
As most of you know, Kawaga is very proud of its traditions and heritage. One of our strongest traditions, something that makes us probably the most proud, is the love and continuing traditions of our multi-generational families. Recently, we received an email from one of our fathers whose son, Jonah, is joining us at camp for the first time this summer during 2nd session. Ian’s feelings and thoughts really hit home with Dewey and I, and we wanted to share it with our camp family. Here, unedited, is the email we received that we wanted to share:
I am a third generation Kawaga brave. My Uncle, Chuck Rubovits, was a camper at Kawaga for the first time in either the summer of 1915 or 1916. All manner of Rubovits, Brasch and Alexander men spent their formative summers on the shores of Lake Kawaguesaga. Yesterday, I dropped my son off at the bus for the beginning of what I hope is his first of many summers on the shores. Kawaga means a lot to me. I met my best friend (to this day) when we were ten year old campers at Kawaga. To say that I am beyond thrilled that my son is carrying on a family tradition is the understatement of my life.
Jonah never had a choice about where he would spend this summer. When he was hours old I read the Kawaga Ideal to him in his crib. He has always known that he would go to Kawaga because for me there was no other option. I am lucky that my wife has indulged me in what I consider an essential part of his childhood. I only hope that he is able to experience the joy and learn the lessons that I experienced as a camper at Kawaga. Thank you for your part in raising him so that his wishbone will not be where his backbone should be.
I had no idea how much his departure yesterday would affect me. As a former camper, I have some understanding of what life at Camp Kawaga is like. Together we watched videos online, went to father son camp and met with you during the off season. We did all of these things so that he would know what to expect when he was finally ready to become a camper. What I didn’t know or realize is how much his first summer at camp would affect me. When Jonah was four months old I had a near death experience. Thankfully, I am fine now. At that time, I prayed that I would live to see Jonah through certain milestones in his life. The first of which was becoming a Kawaga brave. Yesterday we met the milestone. I am so excited that he is up at camp and learning things about himself that I believe are essential to his development as a person. The “I have not lived my life in vain” part of the Ideal is becoming a reality. It is hard to express the emotions that I felt yesterday and continue to feel now.
For me, Kawaga is a part of my DNA. Learning to laugh at myself was one of the best lessons that I learned at camp. I am positive that Jonah is going to take great lessons away from this summer all of which will help make him into the kind of person that I know he will one day become. I am excited to see pictures of him, read letters and hear the stories of what life at camp is like for him. Thanks again for your part in building my son.
And like that, Week 1 is a wrap. Camp always moves at a blur and with the awesome weather this week, Week 1 of #CK2016 was no exception. A great week for everyone, even the few boys with some homesickness 🙂 Our first 2 trips were a success, and the CITs left this morning for their week in the Boundary Waters. Week 2 of clubs and the remainder of Trip Week on tap for Week 2
Overall, an amazing start to summer. New campers, new staffers all doing a great job and having fun!!
Some of our great staffers have put together our first highlight video for Week 1. Since we get a whole lot of pictures during the day, the highlight video shows a lot of our Evening Programs.
First two full days behind us and camp is off to a truly phenomenal start. The great weather of 70s and sunny every day has completely helped for sure, but it is also the great energy of the campers and staff together. The First Session Staff Show just ended and the Staff did a great job “introducing” themselves to all the campers with some intro video clips and funny skits. A great time had by all!! Campers have been flying around the first couple of days. The CITS are leading the way in the Mess Hall, Senior Ball is looking great, new campers were taught a bunch of our songs and cheers today, and on and on we go. The homesickness has been minimal but of course we work with each camper and help him get settled into camp.
As I have walked around camp and jumped into activities myself, I am really excited by the great and hard work of our staff. They are really making a tremendous effort to get to know every camper and see them for the individuals they are. Our Admin team spent a lot of time this offseason preparing for pre-camp knowing we would have a lot more new members of the staff than usual. We spent a great amount of time training up the staff and helping them come together as a group. They worked really hard, and the early returns indicate that all of the Admin’s preparation and the staff’s hard work getting ready has really paid dividends.
With more good weather on the way, we will continue to keep the boys busy with Clubs, Swims, Leagues and fun. Dewey and I are very excited for the way things have started here.
Below is a nice little article promoting something we do at Camp Kawaga as well. As you know, our cabin size and age group breakdown is a bit unique. One of my biggest things in putting together the cabins, something that takes up a lot of time for myself and the Administration, is diversity for the boys. It is great to have a friend at camp, or even a group of friends. But living together in a big group of friends/schoolmates is not a requirement, and is actually something that I believe slows a camper’s growth and independence. Our boys see each other every day, eat meals together, live altogether. Making new friends, meeting new people, it is what camp is really all about. See what you think…
To Camp Alone
May 16, 2016
Written by Rob and Bob Wipfler
Being “Home Alone” did not always work out so well for Macaulay Caulkin. He should have gone to camp alone, instead.
Many parents and children are under the false impression that camps are places for hometown friends to re-gather for summer vacation. They demand to be placed in bunks together and often choose nearly identical camp schedules. Consequently, their time at camp is considerably cloistered, which significantly reduces the best by-product of the experience — an opportunity to make new and enduring friendships.
A good example is witnessed when several children attend camp together and present themselves as co-joined at the hip. This association offers protection and cover, of sort, to that membership. This crowd is collectively “self-conscious,” often presenting themselves as a singular entity. Very simply, they succeed or fail as a group. A new camper in this situation, when choosing activities, is at the mercy of the whim and whimsy of the group (or the groups dominant personality) and is much less likely to get to do the activities which he or she actually wants to do, or the ones that will offer the most benefit to the individual camper.
Many parents vigorously defend this grouping arrangement as it affords their child an insurance plan against the most feared camp outcome — exclusion. But, as the saying goes “nothing ventured, nothing gained.” While those first few hours at camp may be a bit easier, the camper is nonetheless deprived of many of the prime growth opportunities of the camp experience: making new friends on his or her own, being “discovered” by others, and forging fresh identity. The camper who jumps into the camp experience independently will do so “with two feet” and will have a better experience because of it. Parents and children should work to get past this understandable emotion and trust the camp to do what it does best; absorb all campers into the full community culture.
Camp leaders know that a gang of two or three newcomers wearing the same school shirt is less likely to be immediately hailed into an activity than a lonesome soul who politely approaches the crowd. We offer this advice to those who have come to camp with buddies from home:
Just go to an activity by yourself and ask to be included.
Camp cultures are universally accepting and this suggestion will work anywhere. The new camper is not only invited, but completely welcomed.
Now that the child branched out on her own, she is the sole beneficiary of that rush of excitement that comes with such a success. Perhaps it is a game and her team gets clobbered. No matter, she shares a camp experience with other children and, early in the summer, that is a hundred times better than winning the game with pals from home.
Our recommendation to those who wish to come to camp with friends is that all of them — along with their parents — acknowledge that seeking and cementing new friendships is the prime value of camp. Good camps have protocol in place to see that this happens. The directors break up groups into different bunks. When a couple of kids end up in the same cabin nonetheless, (our camp allows requests) the cabin counselors arrange the bed assignments to keep them well apart. Many camps assign children to tables in random fashion, thus assuring rich age and interest variety in the dining room.
Moreover, the program directors put on their thinking caps every day to offer several alluring options to specific age groups during the same timeframe, which tends to alleviate the hometown effect quite well. Lastly, the directors themselves have eyes out for budding cliques. The authors of this blog take personal pleasure in promoting new friendships whenever we see the opportunity, especially early in the session when kids are still a bit nervous about their prospects.
Of course, camp counselors are always on the lookout for all first-year participants and know it is their job to bring them together in a friendly, welcoming fashion. At every camp, the day is filled with informal encounters such as an invitation to play cards or ping pong, join an impromptu game, or just plain hang out. It might be counter-intuitive, but campers who go to camp alone (or if they come with friends, are open to experiencing camp independently and go to activities alone) are more likely to have their “radar” up and open to the often subtle signals of these opportunities to join the fun and make new friends. These are the moments when not being with buddies from home can give any child a real leg up in his quest for making new friends.
Bob and Rob Wipfler are father/son co-directors of ACA-accredited Kingswood Camp for Boys in Piermont, NH. Together they have over 101 years of experience at residential summer camps. They have co-written a blog series for ACA, “Camp 101,” since 2014.
Photo courtesy of Kingswood Camp for Boys, Piermont, NH
Hi all… with camp closing in, we will be posting more and more regularly. Please check in every few days. We will begin our regular blogging schedule in about 1 month once we are all at camp.
There was an article recently published in the Washington Post making its way around Facebook and social media that I hope all parents will read, if you have not already. I have attached the link here (and below) and also emailed the pdf version to all of our Camp Kawaga families today. The article succinctly and positively addresses some of the very real modern day benefits of camp. I encourage you to read the article and share it with your friends, particularly the ones that look at you cockeyed when you explain where your son is heading this summer.
Dewey and I are firm believers that overnight camp prepares your son (or daughter) for life. It does just get them into college, it prepares the for life in college and every day thereafter. Put another way, Camp Kawaga, and overnight camps like it, provides the crucial life experience and training that school can no longer provide. We know there are many different options that can pull your son away from camp each summer, but we hope you acknowledge
Last week we hosted the New Camper Orientation. Many of you who could not attend asked us if we could record the gathering and WE DID. I believe you can hear everything sufficiently, even though you cannot see all of the visuals particularly well. If you have problems listening in, we also have just the audio that we can share with you as a type of podcast.
The information in here will let you in all the important information for you and your son as you prepare for your first summer at Camp Kawaga.
Hello Kawaga families, April is here, and our always informative and fun New Camper Orientation is less than 2 weeks away. Reminding you, the orientation is Sunday, April 24, 2016 with doors opening at 9 am at the Northbrook Renaissance Hotel, 933 Skokie Blvd, Northbrook.
With the start of camp just around the corner, Dewey and I will be sending out information on a regular basis – from helpful articles, packing lists, reminders and great tips. But the best place for this information will be our New Camper Orientation. So don’t miss it!!
Here is our first thoughts as camp closes in… your son may start showing signs of some nerves as the thought of camp and being away approaches.
We are confident your son’s upcoming summer at KAWAGA will be one of the most fun and rewarding experiences of her life. He’ll have a wonderful time, make really good friends, and look back fondly as he grows older. Camp is quite different from ordinary life, however, and it can take some adjustment to get the most out of this time away from home. Over the years, we have learned a few approaches that help make this transition to camp life a smooth one.
Let your son know how excited you are that he is going to Kawaga!
Look over the camp materials/website together and talk about which activities he wants to try, particularly focus on new activities that he cannot do, or does not regularly participate in, at home. Learn about and become familiar with camp procedures and schedules by reading the Parent Camper Guidebook found in your CampMinder account.
If he hasn’t had much experience sleeping away from home or in a rustic setting, set up some practice times.
You might camp together in the backyard or have him sleep out with a friend, or even spend the weekend at a relative’s house.
If your son is nervous about coming to camp, reassure him that you know that he will do great and that all of the other boys feel the same way. These feelings are entirely normal.
Even the campers who have been to KAWAGA for many years get a little anxious on opening day. Just advise your son to be friendly and open to trying what camp has to offer. Also, remind your son to tell his counselor (or any adult he is comfortable with) if he is feeling anxious or home sick.
Make sure he knows that everyone at home wants him to have a wonderful time at Kawaga, and in particular, that you would not have sent him to Kawaga if you did not know it was a great place for him to go.
Avoid comments like “You will have fun, but I am going to miss you so much.” You want him to be excited about camp, and fully engaged with it, instead of worrying about home and how much the family misses him.
Most importantly, stay away from making early “pick up deals” with your son.
One of the worst things that you can tell your son, under any circumstance, is, “If you don’t like camp, then I’ll come get you.” Or any version of this promise. This type of decision puts a big weight on a child’s shoulders and typically sets him up for failure. It also puts our staff and Administration in a difficult position when we are attempting to work through the situation. Your son will be so preoccupied and overwhelmed with deciding whether or not to go home, and your promise, that he will never fully embrace camp.
Listen to and talk about his concerns.
As the first day of camp nears, some children understandably experience uneasiness about going off to camp. Rather than acting on what you believe his feelings to be, ask good questions such as: “We’ve been busy packing your gear. What are your thoughts about heading off to camp in a few days?” Communicate your confidence in is ability to handle being away from home, navigating this new challenge and remind him about “small victories,” successes he has experienced in other situations.
Have realistic expectations.
Camp, like the rest of life, has high points and low ones. Not every moment will necessarily be filled with wonder and excitement. Encourage your child to have a reasonable and realistic view of camp. Discuss both the ups and downs your son may experience. Your child should not feel pressured to succeed at camp either. The main purposes of camp are to relax and have fun.
A special note for your young camper:
Remember that your son will be in charge of taking a shower and washing his hair and brushing his teeth, along with keeping up with his belongings. Always a learning experience and an ongoing effort. If he’s new to this, it’s a good idea to take time practicing these skills before camp begins.